Sermons
Building Houses Away From Home | Building Houses Away From Home |
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I am grateful for my preaching mentor Rev. Ed Searcy for his help on this text.
Armies and empires have been chipping away at
A little community of Israelites have survived the long march from
It was in This is kind of like some of us wishing things were different, like they were back in the 50s when life was just less complicated. When churches were full and its members were younger, a time when our world was more predictable and stable. We pine away for the good old days and just hope and pray that days like them will come soon.
Imagine then the shock that stuns the exiles in I want to tell you about an elderly friend of mine. Her name is Mary and she is an artist. She writes poetry (eyebrows and daisies) and she draws beautiful sketches (the cross). Mary is in her late seventies or early eighties and lived in a house with her husband John. Two years ago Mary fell at home not once but 4 or 5 times over a period of a few months. Her children and her husband were very concerned for her health and so they made the decision to put her in a care home so that she would be close to help. For the first 6 months Mary wondered why in blazes she was in that care home. Living like that felt unnatural to Mary and she wondered why she was even there. Why couldn’t she go home to the way life was before? Living into a new stage of life felt like a kind of exile. For at least 8 months Mary focused on her grief over what she had lost and was unable to live where she was. But one day, perhaps it was a day when she heard the call of Jeremiah and she decided to make the best of it and so she pulled out her book of poetry and began to write again and she got out her pencil and began to draw (this is one of her drawings). Mary has made a friend in the care home and the two of them laugh like crazy at all the happenings and shenanigans that go on around them. Mary has even worked for the welfare of the place and has taught writing to some of the residents. The care home’s welfare was Mary’s welfare as she built a house for herself in this new place. Look around you. This congregations is aging. We can’t change that. Has it occurred to anyone just how much life wisdom is held in our congregations. We need to honor it and even provide the space so that we can see it. It is a gift given to this congregation.
There are many in our congregations that live daily with illness, disability, pain, and health concerns. None of these are easy to live with but what an opportunity for the ministry of pastoral care. The prayer shawl ministry is rising up to embrace those in our communities who need our prayers as we are Jesus’ hands and feet to each other. Our congregations are getting smaller. We may not live to see them get any bigger than they are now. Who knows? But look around you. Do you know the person sitting in the next pew? I bet you do. And the people of this congregation know the people in the congregations in Valley Pastoral Charge. Do you realize how much energy and effort city congregations go to provide the opportunities for people to get to know each other. And they still come on Sunday morning not knowing the person beside them. Maybe we are supposed to be small. Some city churches would give their eye teeth to have the pot luck dinners you folks have. They are amazing opportunities for fellowship and community building. Making the best of difficult situations you may find yourselves in. I’ve been increasingly impressed with your knowledge of who you are as a pastoral charge. You know that your minister cannot visit every person. You know that you have to take responsibility for part of the ministry that occurs. I can see that you folks have been on a journey with new ministers. The best scenario for you is probably three churches, three ministers. But you know that is not possible. So I think you have heard the call of Jeremiah to live well in this place where the accountable minister is mostly absent from this congregation during the week. Where the accountable minister is a new minister learning right along with all of you folks. There have been Jeremiahs who have spoken already in this place. |


